[She has no idea how to make things private or not, so she hopes, for his sake whatever he had done holds on her side as well. She will start with his question. Because that's clearly the most important thing to him.]

Contrary to what you may believe, you had respect before you allowed your own arrogance get in the way....

I am sorry such has happened to you. It explains your anger and your resentment of me. However. I am not them. I am not from this word. I do not have any control here.

[Though she'd like to. Like the Doctor, she has a strong drive for peace. And in this place, asserting her control might be the best way. It had worked on one of the Galifreys, after all.]

So, why do you treat me as if I am one of them?