You're free to jerk yourself off about how hard done by you are for as long as you want, ( doesn't actually sound hostile, although whether or not that means jackshit to the person listening to her remains to be seen; just dry, matter of fact. ) What I did, when I believed I was in a situation equivalent, was what I expect everyone here to do: adapt.

( like, skill issue, bro. )

What you remember, you're never going to see again. Wallow in that or don't. Don't get anyone else killed.